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When Can I Say 'No' in Church Life?

A good ministry wife is sacrificial and always willing to say "yes" in church life... aren't they?


Often ministry wives are involved in demanding, unglamorous, long-term, costly, inconvenient, unseen aspects of ministry. We need to deny ourselves and take up our cross as we live to glorify our Saviour.

So is it ever right to tell people "No" or "I’m sorry, I can’t do that"?

The following resource, along with other Answers for Ministry Wives, can be downloaded and printed to be discussed with other ministry wives, reflected on individually, or worked through by husbands and wives together.

We trust that the material and the practical pointers, prayerfully engaged with, will encourage and equip ministry wives to serve to God’s glory: for their own growth in godliness, the strengthening of ministry marriages, and the growth of God’s church.

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You can find out more about this series in the introduction video below.

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